What should i do with my teenagers who keeps breaking curfew?

My 3 teenage daugters keep breaking curfew i have tried grounding them but it doesn't seem to work. My husband has though about spanking them but should we?What should i do with my teenagers who keeps breaking curfew?
Well in brooklyn that dont happen u need to wup they *** all around where ever u liveWhat should i do with my teenagers who keeps breaking curfew?
don't let them go anywhere
They're too old to spank if they're teens. Besides, one of them might get the wise@$$ idea of calling 911 on you--who believes you're guilty until you prove otherwise.





You need to take away computer, video game, TV, and phone privledges--and not let them get out of the house when they are grounded.
well, being a teenager, i can give u some advice.





1st off, this is gonna be hard, cuz some of the most fun your daughters will have will be after their curfew.





my parents tried threats of grounding before, and i'm not scared of being spanked, it doesn't hurt as bad as a punch in the arm by a bully even.





So what they finally ended up doing was setting up a tent after i left in the garage and when it was past my curfew they locked all the doors and windows, took the spare key, and put the tent with a blanket and crappy pillow in the front yard and put a note ont the door that said ';u were late (again). we told u u would lose privleges- so we took away your rights to your room (which your little sister is enjoying right now). next time we take the blanket and pillow. Love, Mom and Dad.';





i haven't been late since
As long as you're not putting your foot down, they're gonna keep walking on you. What's your idea of grounding? Perhaps they need a month or more to get it in their heads. Maybe you should consider taking away other things that they put value on. Or worse, be a chaperon and take them to where ever they need to go and make sure you pick them up.





You can always try what my dad did... make them put down a $20 deposit. If they're not home by curfew, then they lose their money. He would even demand it from any of the boys I dated! Now, how many times do you think I was late? I had to earn my money.. it wasn't handed to me.
Because you let them get away with breaking the curfew Einstein! Take away something they really love and dont give it back until they follow the rules genius!
All teenagers go through this rebellious stage. And it is hard work. One one hand, you want to have ground rules with them but they rebel against them, but if you didn't have ground rules, they'd think you didn't care and rebel all the more. If you tried spanking teenagers they'd just laugh at you or call you perverse.





Sit down and talk to them, individually preferably. Ask them why they keep breaking curfew and tell them how it makes you feel when they do (worried, anxious). Tell them you love them and that you just want to know that they are safe. Tell them that if they are going to be late, to at least give you a call so you're not sat worrying about them.





It is difficult, but you also need to realise that there's a lot of hormones flying around in teenage years, and they need their space to express themselves and blossom into an adult their own way.





Often they come out at the other end ok.
play some mind games. set up one against the other. pamper one, bully one and ignore one. do it in turns with all. it should not be very long before they fall in line.
compromise with them. you could extend it for a little, or take away something of theirs or do somethin else.


you could pretend to not know about the breaking-curfew habit and one night, wait for them and ask them how was their little trip out.


i suggest you compromise, so they are happy and so are they. but i think that if they are not happy, they will keep on breaking out and maybe they do it because it gets you mad. NO SPANKING!!!!!!!!!
take away their favorite thing like the cell phone or computer and don't give it back til theyv'e learn to respect you.
When you make rules for them you both have to stick to them. They do not take you serious. They will continue to break the rules until you both stick to you're guns! Take away things that they enjoy Telephone, radio, and do not let them go out if they cannot obey the rules!


Spanking a teenager is not an option unless you want to get into serious trouble. Teaching them violence is opening another can of worms.
nope dont let them out of the home until they lern like let them always be with you and dont let them out that much anymore ground them for two weeks no phone freinds email nothing
let them go or they will sneak out
become harsher with them. dont be a softie. ground them for long periods of time and take away the things they cant live without...mobile? etc ..